ahh, the most wonderful time of the year. it's here, and i couldn't be more excited. but the fight to remain "un-busy" (that could be a word, right?) seems so much harder around this time, you know? it's like a rule or something. from thanksgiving until the first week of january, you must be busy.
period. not up for discussion.
we are fighting the good fight, though, and trying to make the most of this holiday season and treasure the spirit of what this season means. so, like a lot of families, we tried to start doing an advent calendar and activities each day to prepare for christmas. however, two days into it, we discovered that with our schedule, it just doesn't really work. we have a window of time between 11:30 am until 1:30 pm that is "free", where for the most part, we are all together under the same roof, but it just feels like too much to try to schedule some type of activity in there. i tried really hard to organize it, creating a calendar of full of family activities for everyday, and on that second day when i was sitting on the couch all by myself, i realized i was going to have to let go of my advent ideals and just have to accept that it might have to be more spontaneous this year. so when the opportunity presents itself, we jump on it. it's a lot less stressful and way more fun! the other night was one of those times. we grabbed dinner out and as we drove home in the snow, mike drove right past the driveway and headed over to a house that puts on a musical light display complete with their own radio frequency. it was such a simple activity, but to us it was so special to have a night where we could choose to live in the freedom of a night without responsibilities.
my heart's desire for christmas in our home is to protect the spirit of christmas and create fond memories for our kids. i want eli and any future children to look back and remember the fun we had during this time of year, as well as to learn from a young age why we celebrate christmas. but i'm thinking, this is really hard with a 2 year old. we tried reading through the "jesus storybook bible" and you would have thought we were reading from encyclopedia britannica. he sat through maybe a paragraph and proceeded to climb off my lap and locate the nearest toy to escape. so, either our child hates the bible or he's just not quite ready for that level of reading material. so, then i found a children's book, a golden book no less, about the christmas story. perfect. this will be perfect.....until we come across sentences like "The streets were full of cheerful, jostling kinsmen." really? jostling kinsmen? so that book will go on the shelf until next year or 5 years from now. i guess for now we will stick to talking about the nativity set and try to focus less on the wise men bringing Jesus presents and more on baby Jesus.
and of course, what's christmas without some crafting? this time of year always sparks my desire to make all the things. and naturally i want to impart my love for arts and crafts onto my son.
here's a recent conversation between mike and i after an arts and crafts session:
me: "so i feel like eli isn't going to love crafts like i want him to."
mike: "what do you mean?"
me: "well, i try to do crafts with him, and he he's done after like 2 minutes. he just doesn't seem to love it."
mike: "well, he is 2."
yes, there is that. me and my high expectations. i will keep trying though, don't you worry!
on a completely unrelated note, can i tell you what i can't get enough of this christmas season? candles! i love christmas scents. my hands down favorite christmas candle is one i found at kohl's years ago called "white christmas". i stock up every year. but then there are so many other yummy smells. i seriously have to restrain myself from buying a candle every time i go to the store. there's just something about cozying up the couch with a hot drink and candles burning when there's snow on the ground and a chill in the air.
now if only those little elves would be so nice as to come keep my house clean everyday in preparation for christmas.......
how do you prepare for christmas at your house?
